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HAPPY BIRTHDAY COW!

It’s 26 degrees. In equatorial Singapore, this is freezing weather. I have goosebumps on my legs. And so I should really be dreaming of sunny beach islands.

While waiting in the very long line to talk to you, I navigate through facebook for sun-scorched memories in meek escapism.

And instead.
I end up here.
Winter-holidaying in arctic-circle Abisko.

Wait! Isn’t this bleak, dark, bitterly cold and so-not-blueskyholiday-worthy?

Afraid so. But I really couldn’t help myself. It is my favourite memory of us. Shoots warm through the heart like an espresso dose.

Happy Birthday Cow! :D To many more of these to come.

Chicago!

Chicago, the musical, is hitting shores next year! I think this is the most exciting show to touch our sunny island since Phantom of the Opera [but yes, I shall reserve all comment until after I catch this].

Yay to musical extravaganzas hehe :)

For more information, see esplanade.com

 

One Great Love

I’ve been having some sort of crisis trying to fill the wide gaping void left behind by Gabriel Garcia Marquez’s Love in the Time of Cholera.

Really, I think it is going to take a while. It is such a winner!

The novel centres on Florentino’s hopeless love for Fermina from his youth all through to his dying days. Unfortunately for him, Fermina decides to marry the distinguished Dr. Juvenal, leaving our loveless hero heartbroken but not despairing.

I’m not sure why cholera… I’m not sure of any intended analogy of the disease to an all-consuming love perhaps? Sure the story is set amidst the cholera pandemic overtaking Spain.  But there is little reference except in the end when Florentino Ariza uses it as a means to orchestrate the final journeys of his never-ending love for Fermina Daza.

But what really was the main star of the whole novel was Love. Love in almost all forms possible – passionate youths, endearing tolerance of husband and wife, a highly expectant father and his daughter, woman and son, a friendship made out of a love passed up on, loads of flings, companionship in old-age.

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The most beautifully written one of all must of course be the undying love Florentino Ariza has for Fermina Daza. It was so unbridled and untested, it almost resembled some form of idolatry – an idealistic frenzy of a hopeless romantic incapable of writing a formal letter even, because his prose is so engineered, and his soul so consumed, by the lyrical language of literary romantics.

[As usual, the emphasis on literature as the source and expression of passion and ideals - the food of soul. :D ]

And then in the end, when Fermina and Florentino finally reunite after the timely death of the otherwise bizarre death of her husband, the story does not give way to careless passion despite the unadulterated idolation of Fermina. Instead, it recognises that love will never work unrequited; that it is unrealistic for a woman to bear love for a man she has come to lose touch with for 51 years. And so, Fermina and Florentino tackle their relationship with a maturity earned with age and experience, and work at rediscovering and accommodating each other’s personalities.

Only to result in very sweet [and very believable] ending:

“They were together in silence like an old married couple wary of life, beyond the pitfalls of passion, beyond the brutal mockery of hope and the phantoms of disillusion: beyond love. For they have lived together long enough to know that love was always love, anytime and anyplace, but it was more solid the closer it came to death.”

A very clear contrast to and brilliant transition of attitudes we hold towards love from youth to old.

Another thing I liked was how Marquez tackled the idea of married life. Like many women of her age, Fermina sought marriage as a means to an end to an otherwise dull life. But Marquez delves into life after “happy ever after” and honestly presents the many stages that come after – the honeymoon, the grouses and petty impatience of two people too close for and too long in comfort, and finally the indispensable familiarity and habit that an aged couple can count on after a whole age together – a confident dependence on the other for company.

But best of all was the idea that life holds a million possibilities. And the idea that we should never give up on love. Love, in all its forms, and especially in hope and worship, is a marvel.

“After 53 years, 7 months, and 11 days and night, my heart was at last fulfilled. And I discovered, to my job, that it is life and not death that has no limits”

I don’t know how Marquez does it. Apart from pulling off this overworked love story without coming across as cliched, he also managed to set charm to the almost magical backdrop of a cholera-infested Carribean coast.

All the while, something along the lines of this was set in my mind.

Perfect backdrop to a love story. Made to life by his very charming prose. I think it was the attention he paid to providing a backdrop for most senses: sight, smell, touch – and a heightened sensitivity to transitions and memory. And how he used the backgrounds to characterise and introduce his characters such that you could read their personalities in the structures that surrounded them.

This book is very wordy though. But once you’re in it, it is dreamlike and vivid. Marquez describes everything with a fondness and earnestness such that you feel as if he is really wanting to go back in that space in time. There is an overwhelming tone of nostalgia as he enjoys pitting old and new aside each other.

This one is a definitely a keeper. And worth many reads. I feel as if I haven’t even gotten to the bottom of everything yet. The text is so rich, I bet I’d pick up tons of new things on a 2nd, maybe even 3rd read.

I also hear there’s a movie. I would love to watch it, even though I hear it didn’t do very well at the box office. It’d be fun to watch an interpretation of the novel – sort of like a visual bookclub of sorts.

But really, it’d be great seeing his imagery come to life!

The Photodiarist

Just discovered a really cool site with amazing photos taken in and around NYC.

Proof I’ve been procrastinating too much and looking too hard for escape routes out of an otherwise dull study break.

For more of this cool stuff, head to the photodiarist.

Electric Dreaming

It seems that books, like toys, can come alive at night. And all this while I’ve always thought I’ve been dreaming.

“109 Lightning Books” by Airan Kang at the Bryce Wolkowitz Gallery.


This is so cute and funny. I don’t know about you, but I think it beats those cheesy photo slideshows they do at weddings. Sweet precursor to a wedding I’d like to attend! I feel like I know what kind of people and the kind of (fun!) wedding they’d have.

Dear Ms. Addams,

style me gorgeous this halloween, pretty please!

f21f21, vivienne westwood, zac posen

 

I woke up to rain this morning. And rubbed my hands in glee. Perfect weather to be sipping curry in between lazy snoozing. :D

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This curry is thick and sweet with the pulp of pumpkin. Hmmm perfect receipt to be dumping your pumpkin squash into while carving out jack-o-lanterns.

Goes really well with the salmon and prawn that calls for it. And some Bak Choy and mushrooms. Its not that hard to have a balanced meal when you can throw everything into one stew of golden goodness.

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Now this is what I would call perfect rainy day food.

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Yesterday I had a really good time at the movies.

Actually, yesterday I had one of my best times at the movies ever!

Because I’ve watched one of those rare ones which leave you thinking and thinking about, simply because there are so many themes and ideas layered on top of each other that you are thrilled and curious about. If only because some of them are feelings you’ve been wanting to put into expression for a long long time.

That’s what I got with Balzac and the Little Chinese Seamstress, screened at the artshouse as part of the Singapore Writer’s Festival.

Who’s Balzac? Hes a french novelist and playwright, known for being one of the founders of realism in European literature.

In the movie, the little seamstress gets educated on Balzac by two city boys sent to her town for Communist re-education. Because the boys are great storytellers, Balzac, and other novelists like Dumas and Dostoyevsky, open the seamstress and other village folk to the fashions of the world that Communist China has closed its doors to. But none as important as the freedom to have and follow ideals.

“The savage has feelings… only the civilized man has feelings and ideas”

This affects the little seamstress in a slow but sure way. After a period away from her lover, and an abortion, she packs up, puts on some modern shoes, and leaves the boys with a quote:

“A woman’s beauty is a treasure beyond price.”

Ever needed reminding that you, yourself, are your greatest possession and it’s up to you and yourself only to take charge of your life and earn your experiences? I think this movie hit it.

Instead of relying on the two city boys to paint the world outside for her, and waiting her lover to come home and define herself by him, she chose to walk out of the village herself.

Of course there were lots of references to Mao and the revolution. (I think this picture says it all about Mao and his very devoted peasantry haha) I can’t say I can identify with that. But even China has to keep up with the times. Everybody is linked to the environment. And with the whole world changing around you, it’d be impossible to remain behind stubbornly. I don’t think communism in China was really an ideal when nobody is allowed to test it in the brave new world.

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I also liked the importance placed on literature as a means of education, escapism, a respite for your ideals and the need for freedom of ideals to keep your sense of self with you in a suffocating environment of menial chores meant to dull your mind.

But I think what was best put forward was the irreversible toll time and modernity ravages on people. Growing up makes you put down some things. Like youth – which is always hard to reminisce upon because its sunk with your newfound maturity and realism. And even if you go back to the places of before, the pictures, and the memories, there’s nothing else you can do except look through the window of a period in your life like a child trapped indoors wishing for play.

I’m not saying this movie was perfect. (There was a really abrupt fast forward to 20 years later.) Nor am I saying that it’s for everybody. But I think it is an honest, heartfelt effort which deserves a watch and some pondering over. Nothing overly dramatic nor ambitious. Just a subtle observation at coming-of-age which really pulls at your heart I think. Plus some humorous bits that got the audience laughing along and the characters so endearing.

And gorgeous never-before-seen scenery. It took the director 7 months to get permission to film on location in Zhangjiajie. It made mountain life seem like a simple and appealing hiatus.

Loving offbeat movie fests! :) Catch this if you ever get a chance!

Everyday Cake

Whoever said cake was only fit for dessert hasn’t really enjoyed cake at all.

In fact, whoever said cake wasn’t to be enjoyed every day, every itching you get, is really far off from cake heaven…

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which happens to look like this.

It was Dad’s birthday last weekend. And I thought I’d break the little old tradition of getting up early to fry some bacon and eggs, by baking this wonderfully healthy nutty wholegrain goodness that is the cardamom-almond-walnut-wholemeal cake!

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The thought of cardamom and wholemeal just excites me. Because I’ve never baked with wholemeal flour before. And because cardamom permeates everything with such flavour, through your kitchen and two storeys of house, so that a whiff of it would wake anybody up instantly. Plus spice always makes you feel nice and warm. Not that we really need that in blistering weather. But for a cool morning, perfect breakfast and snacking food.

One bite into this gets you walnuts, almonds and wholemeal! Very full-bodied and rich in texture.

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I’d do this again for afternoon reading and chamomile tea! And a house smelling of the sweet spice :D

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